hey people.. suddenly, i have the urge to write this down.. ahha.. please bear with it.. =D
have you guys ever wondered how couples get together?? haha.. we know that it all started when we feel something for that certain person.. you are friends with them.. but somehow, everytime you talk to them, you would feel embarrassed or something like that.. haha..
next thing you realise is that you are falling for that person.. i tell you it can both blissful and hurting at times.. but you want to confirm to yourself that you really crazy in love with that person and not just half-hearted love.. thus, you would remain low profile while you try to get be normal in front of him and stuff like that..
alright when you have confirm your feelings, you would want to tell the person that you have feelings for him or her and wishes to be his partner.. but i tell you, it takes a person to gather all of his courage to confess to the person that he or she loves.. i am sure that some of you would be afraid of rejection.. haha.. then it would be like unrequited love.. a feeling you have for someone, hoping that the other party would returned, remains unreturned if you did not confess to him or her.. i have face this kind of situation and was reject by the same person again and again.. but i did not give up.. some people might say that i am a freak.. well, i don't really care what people thinks.. and everytime i remember about him, my heart would ache terribly.. the pain i had to suffer for 6 years.. haha.. my unrequited love.. and it turns out that the guy did have feelings for me but he was too ashamed that i was the one who confessed.. so it is his lost and not mine.. since i have feelings for someone.. =]
thus, i think that you people should give try in confessing to the one that you loves.. it is up to them whether they accept you or reject you because they do not the same feelings as you.. but please, i really hope that both parties should remain friends if one of the parties reject your confession.. this is how we, the one who confessed, ended up getting hurt because the person who we confessed to avoid us, give cold shoulder and etc.. shame on you people who did that.. you should be happy that there is someone who loves you.. you might not have feelings for that person and you should say thank you when someone confesses to you.. this is a good way of maintaining a good friendship.. he or she might not be beautiful to your eyes.. but give a chance to him or her, by develop a friendship between the both of you and find out about their true identity.. that is my advice to you.. =]
haha.. alright next is some bulletins i got from friendster and they are from one of my colleagues.. i found this article interesting and you people might want to read it.. =] this is strictly no offence to anyone..
The Orang Panjang Contemporary Mat DictionaryGua [goo-wah] noun – What some mats and minahs use to call themselves. Similar in using “lu” when referring to others. A legacy that dates back to the times of Mat Rocks back in the early 80s.A common trick that can be played on Mats is to ask them to translate the English phrase “Monkey Cave” into Malay. The mat will then say “Gua Monyet” (I'm a monkey).
Mat [mat] noun – To the rest of the world, the word simply means a Malay guy. But within the Malay community itself there is a growing disparity in consensus to its actual meaning. Popularly, it's used to denote a guy who converses primarily in Malay, as opposed to the more “English speaking” types. Favourites of the mats include tapered jeans, trucker caps and weepy Malay songs with sickeningly suicidal lyrics.Matrep [mat-rape] noun – An extreme version of the mat. In addition to the usual mat accessories, a matrep will also come adorned with tattoos and matching body-piercings in weird corners of his body.
Minah [mee-nah] noun – An expression used to denote a Malay female. Derived from the popular Malay name, Aminah, which used to be all the rage some time ago. It was sort of the “in-thing” to name your daughter Aminah back in the 60s and 70s. In fact, legend has it that ifyou go to Geylang Serai market and shout “Hai Minah!” at least a quarter of the makcik population there is going to turn around and smile at you.
Picit [pee-chet] adjective – When a mat tells you to “picit” him, it does not mean that he is trying to be cheeky (or gay, if he is talking to a fellow mat). It simply means that the mat wants you to call him on his mobile. What were you thinking?
Relaksuah [ree-lek-soo-wah] adjective – Official slogan and life motto of the mats and minahs.
Sial [see- yal ] noun / adjective – A full stop in every mat's sentence. Eg: “Tadi aku nampak accident sial Rabak sial Aku tak bedek sial Kesian sial” Translation: Just now I saw an accident (full stop) It was bad (full stop) I'm not kidding (full stop) Poor guy (full stop)
In its purest form, “sial” means “jinx” but mats have refined the art of using the word to include it at the end of their every sentence. Also comes in the more polite form “siak” and “siul” for those who do not want to sound too crude.
Skank [s-kank] adjective - A favourite weird-looking dance performed by mats and minahs. Usually done at any of the various gigs that mats and minahs love to congregate at. At times, you do detect evidence of artistry in the dance but most of the time they just look like they've been possessed by the ghost of a restless retard.
Sowie [soh-wee] adjective – An expression of apology used by minahs. Commonly used in SMS and instant messaging. Actually they can just use the word “sorry” like every normal human being but minahs think that it will make them sound extra cute to deliberately talk that way. Example : “I will be late. Sowie!”
Step [se-tep] adjective – To beguile, dissimulate or impersonate something or someone that they are not. Also commonly used to describe a fellow mat or minah who acts in an arrogant manner. E.g.“Kau jangan nak step tak tahu eh?” Translation: Don't you dare feign innocence in this matter. Can also be used as a gerund e.g. “stepping”. See next entry.
Step Jambu [se-tep jam-boo] adjective - What minahs do when they are sitting alone in a train and a group of mats walk in. It is a general exercise where the minah “controls” her facial muscles and posture in a way that would make her look her best. This would usually involve looking incessantly at her handphone for no particular reason.
Stoppit [setop-eet] adjective – A general expression of intolerance and dismay. When a minah uses this phrase, be very careful for it signals that she is about to lose her cool or get very violent.Labels: i want to see you..